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As an adult woman I have casual sex a lot and here’s what I’ve learned:

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Never have sex when you’re hungover. I started having sex when I was only 17 in my first serious relationship, which ended 3 years later, at the time of my first pregnancy. I’ve learned to only have sex when I feel good about myself in my body, when I’m in a good mood, and usually when I have at least one or two drinks (or a few). I usually have 3-4 drinks to relax myself before I perform so that I can enjoy the experience. Having casual sex has enabled me to be in a long-term relationship now. I had sex with my husband before I moved in with him because I wanted to start our relationship off right. He was very understanding and said that it was not really a problem but that we should wait for a day of our time where I was sober and clear-headed. I didn’t want to wait because I don’t have a problem with sex or my body. I just wanted to get it out of the way and get to know him better.

Avoid casual sex with people you don’t trust

I’ve only had sex with 4 of my boyfriends and don’t even really plan on dating anymore. I’ll only date and have sex with people I trust.

Steer clear from casual sex

I’ve dated 4 of my 5 long-term boyfriends. But my first boyfriend broke my heart. We were going out for 4 months and he didn’t ever say anything to me about wanting to have sex. He was clearly very nervous about it, even though he wanted it as much as I did. It was his first time and he was so awkward. He was like, “What are we doing right now?” He seemed scared to death about what would happen if it turned out I wasn’t really a virgin, but if anything it was confusing to me. At the same time I was super horny because it had been days since we’d been naked. However, when we finally had sex I didn’t feel the way he had told me I would. He pushed me really hard to
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Welcome to the new tier of sexual interactions that don’t fit into casual love or serious relationships. And sometimes, it’s mutually agreed upon. But for many people, it’s relationship-building sex, not just hookup sex. In fact, many people are learning how to have sex as friends in the era of hookup culture, and this is a great place to start.
Since when are two consenting adults not allowed to have sex? (Yes, this question has been asked before.) But if we’re talking about a hookup or relationship where two people don’t necessarily have a ton in common, and it’s not a question of time with someone, then we’re not really talking about casual sex — we’re talking about sex. And if you and your partner don’t want to be having it, then it’s a problem. And it’s not one unique to casual sex; why can’t we just call things what they are?
There are other risks involved in having casual sex, which is to say that not having casual sex carries risks, too. Roughly 1 in 5 women and 1 in 7 men who have sex with an experienced partner will get a sexually transmitted infection. When most people think of a big college party, they don’t think of the kinds of risky behavior that can get people into trouble. And having casual sex just at parties puts people at greater risk. This is where chlamydia, gonorrhea, and syphilis can lurk. Why? Because many of these STIs are asymptomatic — and thus, the only way that you are infected is if you have sexual contact with someone who is already infected.
But perhaps this puts casual sex’s risk into more context. The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) reported that 1 out of 5 sexually active people will contract an STI during their lifetimes, 1 out of 20 within their lifetime. According to the National Conference of State Legislatures (NCSL), in 2015, there were 1,655 cases of the most common STIs reported: chlamydia and gonorrhea. And even then, there is still much we don’t know, since just because someone has an STI doesn’t necessarily mean they aren’t spreading it.
So what’s the deal with casual sex?
Regardless of your level of desire, just because you aren’t a hookup doesn’t mean you can’t be having casual sex. There are a lot of great examples of fun encounters that


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